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Voices Carry: She Said Movie Review

 



She Said, directed by Maria Schrader takes investigative journalism to another level, as New York Times journalists Megan Twohey (played by Carey Mulligan) and Jodi Kantor (played by Zoe Kazan) spearhead a story that would finally give women a voice to speak out about their experiences against one of most affluent Hollywood producers, Harvey Weinstein.

It is no surprise that powerful men often feel that they are in a position to have the upper hand and can use many forms of coercive control to get what they want.  The word “narcissist” is a word that is well-known in our vocabulary, but until we witness this behaviour, it only scratches the surface of what a person with this type of personality disorder can be capable of.  

The portrayal of Harvey in this film is chilling. It is a mirrored reflection of many men (in this particular case, but can be applied to any gender, of course) who believe they will never be caught because they are under a delusion that they are untouchable. We are reminded that as this case unfolds, the illusion of this idea is deeply flawed.  

The mix of emotions here is strong, as recollections of events are told and of course all the loop holes that impede justice. There is no linear path sometimes for conviction, which is frustrating and we can see the pursuit for the truth is painstakingly hard. We hold an uneasy feeling of wondering if justice will ever prevail. 

I thought this film was executed very well and Mulligan and Kazan’s performances exposed their character’s emotions in a raw way that didn’t take away from the story itself, but actually made it stronger. There is always risk to revealing dark secrets when evidence is not clear cut, but the phrase often used of “he said, she said” doesn’t apply here as all the pieces come together and we get to see more people come out of the shadows and one of the most prolific New York Time stories published that can never be unseen.

Some may feel that Weinstein was just another victim of his earlier life circumstances, plagued by mental illness and the incredible pressures of the Hollywood lifestyle. These and many other factors allowed for his behaviours to be overlooked and unnoticed. 

She Said is a liberating film to watch and as I reflected, I thought of a song that I loved to karaoke. It is called Voices Carry – by 'Til Tuesday with an empowering chorus “hush, hush, keep it down now, voices carry” which can be an anthem sung loudly for women (or any person for that matter) who has experienced the devastating and often long-standing wounds of abuse.  



💜Resources to reach out to:

Support links- Ontario

Canadian Mental Health

National organizations




No Late Fees: The Last Blockbuster


The Last Blockbuster is a wonderful documentary, directed by Taylor Morden and written by Zeke Kamm, with charming narration by actress/comedian, Lauren Lapkus  all about the history of Blockbuster video. Included are loads of nostalgic memories from some celebrity faces like comedians Kevin Smith, Jamie Kennedy, and Doug Benson.

So what would happen if Netflix and chill never existed, and we never became accustomed to streaming tv shows and movies?  The old saying “you don’t really know what you’ve got till it’s gone” definitely has some truth here.

Blockbuster went from an outstanding 9000 video rental stores to 1.  Yes, 1 store in the whole world!  Spoiler, as of writing this blog in 2022, only ONE Blockbuster store remains, headed by manager, Sandi Harding in Bend, Oregon, who is well-known as the “blockbuster mom”.  Throughout the doc, we see Sandy's dedication to Blockbuster and the countless hours of personal sacrifices that she makes for the company. It's all really quite remarkable.

A single Blockbuster card was the ticket to watching old favourites, new releases, and anything your heart desired. I know that I could spend a good hour there or more, just going up and down the aisles.  It wasn’t just another trip to the video store. It was an experience. 

Of course, after choosing a few videos and piling them on the counter, you awaited the employee to scan your card. There was excitement mixed with a bit of dread each time, maybe a bit of sweat too, as you didn’t want them to utter those four words “you have late fees.”  I never had any, but that sigh of relief always felt good hearing it straight from the Blockbuster staff. 

If we’re going to rewind here, I remember a lot of fond memories going to Blockbuster here in Windsor, Ontario.  I was only a few blocks away from one when I was living at home, so many weekends would be spent renting movies. There was something cool about whipping out that little plastic card out of your wallet and flashing it to the employee before they could ask you whether you were part of the membership club. It held much responsibility.  

Did anyone collect movie posters that Blockbuster intended to throw out?  If you asked, ye shall receive. They were always more than willing to give out a few after they didn’t have any use for them in the store anymore, including some of the cardboard cut-outs.  Our basement was filled with them! 

Although we have really evolved with technology and soon enough I’m sure we’ll be able to just think of a movie and it will randomly appear on our devices to watch, heading out for that weekly trip to the movie store to find what treasures await me will never go out of style.

💜Do you have any memories of Blockbuster video? I'd love to hear them! Leave me a comment below or send me an e-mail via my contact form. 

Controversy: Legalizing Gay Marriage

I just heard the news about the USA legalizing gay marriage in all 50 states.  I thought at first maybe it was one of those fake news stories that go viral because it's a controversial topic, but upon further research, this was no hoax! It was quite a celebratory day yesterday for the LGBTQ community.

So here are my thoughts.

Instead of all the extreme hatred and fierce determination to protect the unity of "man and woman," how about we just open our eyes and see all the love that is out there in the world and show just a little respect for those who decide to make that commitment, instead of dividing the world even further apart? I think that's the least we can do for our fellow human beings.

I think everyone has the right to their own beliefs. I know many people who are very conservative and do not support lgbtq+, BUT they would be respectful enough to say "hey even though that's not my cup of tea and I won't participate in or promote their lifestyle, they still have a right to happiness and love." I'm actually okay with that stance.

For me, it is the people who are vocal about their hatred and have some twisted view that they have to fight back, when no rights have been taken away at all. Marriage rights have just evolved so other partnerships can enjoy the sanction of marriage now too.


Erasure's A Little Respect (HMI Redux version)